EVERY TEXT YOU SEND A WOMAN CREATES A FEELING IN HER

Imagine you open your phone and see this text from a cute girl you've been hoping to meet up with for a few weeks: "Hey, it's Angie. Are you free tonight? I'm super bored."

What's the emotion that text contains for you? It could be:- Surprise ("Whaa..! Is she making herself available for ME??") - Excitement ("Oh man, Angie wants to meet up! Woo!")

Confidence ("Oh yeah, look at that. It's already in the bag.") - Relief ("Thank goodness, I was getting sick of the run around!")

Angie cannot control EXACTLY what emotion you're going to feel. However, she can control what RANGE you feel it in. All the emotions you feel, for instance, are positive. They're all motivational. They all move you toward taking action to meet up.

Now imagine it's a week later (the date with Angie went great) and you're texting another girl named Juliet. After you ask Juliet out for drinks, she replies with this:

"Actually I think I'm taking a break from dating right now. I just really need to focus on myself for a bit. "What's the emotion THAT text contains for you?

It might be:

That's way more eager than you expected... and it gives you a lot of information:

1. She's in a positive, eager, compliant emotion.

2. She obviously feels good about you and remembers you.3. She even appears eager to meet (offering two days is an excellent sign)

What emotion will you aim for in your next text? Well, the next emotion you want to aim for is to take her eagerness and move it into resolve. Eagerness is a fickle emotion. She might be eager now, then her boss comes and chews her out, and suddenly she's not eager anymore.

So before the emotion can subside you want to shift her from a FICKLE emotion to a SOLID one. Your next text aims to do just this, and you'll just use a standard proposal text:

You say "Thursday's perfect. How about 7 o'clock at X and X. We can head over to this really groovy little coffee and cocktail lounge near there."

If you get her before that fickle emotion has fled, you get her to make a decision while she's still feeling good toward you and that decision will usually be a "yes."

Now she has resolve, mixed in with whatever eagerness she has to meet you (that is now more concrete because it's mixed with that resolve). You would NOT want to respond to that eager text from her by engaging her in a fun back and forth instead of asking her out.

Why not? Because if she gets tired of that long texting conversations, or something else in her life disrupts her emotions, she won't be nearly so eager to agree to a date with you anymore!

 This "emotional element" of texting is so CRUCIAL, but so many men neglect it... and do things that create totally the wrong emotion. Or they MiSS OUT on really good emotions they catch girls in by failing to strike while the iron is hot.

Every text you send creates an emotion. You want to try your best to know what that emotion is likely to be. If you get it wrong and she responds with an emotion you didn't expect, well... it's not the end of the world. That is how you LEARN!

Make a mental note of it, that you thought you'd have Effect A, but really had Effect B. Was it because of your text? Or because of something in her life? If it rarely or never happens again, it was probably just something on her end.

However, if similar things happen repeatedly with other girls when you send the same kinds of texts, it is something IN the text you're sending. A focus on the emotional response from girls tells you HOW you're doing and WHAT to focus on.

Keep this focus, and never lose it, and you'll discover you begin to get better and BETTER at your texting.

I WON'T LET A SINGLE MAN GET PLAYED BY ANY WOMAN.

@masculineawaken